Confused sexuality

[gracie3834]

I'm gracie, i am a 13 (almost 14) year old female and while i have never had any confusion about my gender i am very confused about my sexuality. I have been wondering whether or not i am a lesbian for a pretty long time. lately i think i'm bi, but i'm not so sure. I often see girls and think how pretty they are and since i spend a lot of time on the internet i have inadvertently been exposed to images of a sexual nature. I am somewhat grossed out by naked males while i still see guys and think they are attractive. I get "turned on" more often by pictures of females than males. I see lesbian relationships and get jealous and i think they are so cute, but i also get jealous of heterosexual relationships. I am not necessarily afraid of being a lesbian but i don't want to be. I feel like if i am bisexual that it would just be easier to have heterosexual relationships since i feel like it is so hard to meet other gay/bi girls. I am not really uncomfortable with the idea of being openly bisexual although i don't want to tell anyone since i am not 100% sure. I have also often felt that since there are people who like just one gender and people who like both genders, that maybe i'm a different kind of person who doesn't like either. I am just very confused and i wish there were just a way to tell for sure. i fell like i should be sure by now hearing stories about gay people saying that they have known they were gay since day one.

[smartie]

Hey, firstly welcome to the site, Im still fairly new to this site too, but I do have some advise for you...! Firstly, you're only 13 thats still very young Im 19 and still figuring my sexuality out. My biggest suggestion would be to RELAX don't put so much pressure on yourself to figure out who you are and who you like. You don't need to label this right away, or ever if you dont want to.

At the moment, Im still figuring out about being Bi and the way Im doing this is by chilling out and considering things without putting any stress or labels on things. For example recently Ive kissed both a guy and a girl, on two seperate occasions however I've found myself questioning which I enjoyed more, and comparing them- when really I know I enjoyed both experiences and I have decided to simply take these events as experiences and not weigh myself down with questions and labels.

You're still young and have alot of time ahead of you to figure this out, if there is someone close to you you think you can discuss this with that may help.
I hope my ramblings have helped even slightly, just remember this is a personal thing and theres no need to rush to label your own sexuality.