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Post by minime992 on Nov 14, 2011 6:43:36 GMT
Hi,
So i'm really confused with my sexuality, my feelings. I'm not comfortable within my self, Im still a virgin so havent really done stuff with guys however i have done stuff with girls? Does this make me gay? But i find guys really attractive. How do i know who i am?
Thanks
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Post by commik on Nov 18, 2011 8:14:35 GMT
That's a question I believe will take you time to find the answer to. Experimenting with same sex partners is actually very common. That doesn't necessarily make you gay because you have done things with girls. Personally, I believe being LGBT isn't about sex but about who you can really fall in love with and want to have a relationship with. Also, you may go back and forth between what you feel for different sexes and that's totally ok. Knowing who you truly are takes a long honest look inside yourself with a lot obstacles and adventures. All I can say is don't rush into knowing who you are, experience getting to know yourself and eventually the answer will come.
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Post by amoeba on Dec 2, 2011 3:04:25 GMT
Very well said Commik!
It took me around four years to get all my lables sorted, and I still find new things about myself all the time! Self acceptance is key, dont let yourself get scared of your feelings, or else it will just make it harder.
Also, welcom to the forum! its quiet here, but it is alive, just kinda slow to grow, like a tree!
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