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Post by soccer9 on Oct 19, 2011 2:11:46 GMT
 Well I was in a relationship with a girl named Cammy. We had a long distance relationship. Anyways i thought i loved her even though she constantly cheated on me. Eventually i realized i wasn't and i was sick of how badly she treated me so i ended it. WE remained friends and i later found out she was dating a girl named Jen. I didn't know Jen so i didn't care when Cammy would get me to fool around with her like phone sex and such. Then I started talking to her and fell hard. I realized that she did not deserve how Cammy treated her. Even though her and Cammy were together i had never wanted to be with someone so bad in my entire life. So i was sweet on her and all this and she finally told me that she did have feelings for me and that if her and Cammy broke up we could give it a shot. They did break up then Cammy got back with her because she felt guilty for making Jen sad. But after that Jen broke up with her because she was tired of how Cammy treated her. A day or so later she asked me out on my birthday so i of course said yes. The next day my friend made me realize that i love Jen and i found out Jen loved me too. Things were great we didn't have one fight and i was always sweet to her and did everything i could to keep her happy. She broke up with me after we had been dating for six days. She said that it wasn't fair to me because a part of her still loved Cammy. I was heartbroken and still am because she got back with Cammy. Cammy still treats her like shit and she just takes it. I don't understand why she broke up with me if she still tells me she loves me and wants to be with me. I'm still so sweet to her. i write her poems and everything but i cant get her to break up with Cammy. She even has phone sex with me and all this stuff but wont end it. i'm running out of ideas on how to get her back. Someone Please please please help me! Seeing her with Cammy breaks my heart more and more everyday. 
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Post by cat on Oct 20, 2011 1:05:54 GMT
Well, I have never been in a relationship with a girl yet but I will try to give you some helpful suggestions  Just keep being nice and kind to Jen, and show her that you love her. Don't be too or overly devoted though, becuz then she might just take your compassion for granted. She is pretty lucky to have you and Cammy, but if cammy really is treating Jen badly, hopefully, especially by being around you, she will realize that she may need to move on, and maybe will come back to you <3 I think this would be the best thing to do for now, atleast until you come up with something else or other peeps give advice. Anyhow no matter what I hope that everything works out!!! |
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Post by commik on Nov 18, 2011 8:24:31 GMT
I say save your love and devotion for someone who is undoubtedly willing (and wanting) to give it back to you. You sound like you have such a huge heart and you deserve something stable and less chaotic. A girl is out there that wants you and only you...and she will be the one writing all the love poems I would keep my head up, know that I'm worth more, and move on. Easier said then done I know...but, is this worth all the pain? |
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Well I was in a relationship with a girl named Cammy. We had a long distance relationship. Anyways i thought i loved her even though she constantly cheated on me. Eventually i realized i wasn't and i was sick of how badly she treated me so i ended it. WE remained friends and i later found out she was dating a girl named Jen. I didn't know Jen so i didn't care when Cammy would get me to fool around with her like phone sex and such. Then I started talking to her and fell hard. I realized that she did not deserve how Cammy treated her. Even though her and Cammy were together i had never wanted to be with someone so bad in my entire life. So i was sweet on her and all this and she finally told me that she did have feelings for me and that if her and Cammy broke up we could give it a shot. They did break up then Cammy got back with her because she felt guilty for making Jen sad. But after that Jen broke up with her because she was tired of how Cammy treated her. A day or so later she asked me out on my birthday so i of course said yes. The next day my friend made me realize that i love Jen and i found out Jen loved me too. Things were great we didn't have one fight and i was always sweet to her and did everything i could to keep her happy. She broke up with me after we had been dating for six days. She said that it wasn't fair to me because a part of her still loved Cammy. I was heartbroken and still am because she got back with Cammy. Cammy still treats her like shit and she just takes it. I don't understand why she broke up with me if she still tells me she loves me and wants to be with me. I'm still so sweet to her. i write her poems and everything but i cant get her to break up with Cammy. She even has phone sex with me and all this stuff but wont end it. i'm running out of ideas on how to get her back. Someone Please please please help me! Seeing her with Cammy breaks my heart more and more everyday. 
