I like my best friend....*UPDATE

[»Kotomi«]

For the past year, I have confirmed to myself that I indeed, do like my best friend "more" than a friend...She's the best thing in the world and she makes me happy :3

I have confessed to her over Myspace via messaging, and she basically said that she wanted us to talk about this face to face and that she didn't want to rush into anything that could harm our friendship.

She knows I'm gay and I know that she's bisexual.

Problem is, she currently has a boyfriend >> but she confessed that when he tried to kiss her, she felt sick to her stomach and she doesn't like it when he touches her. She's even made comments to me like, "I can't wait for us to hang out! We should totally crossdress and flirt w/ girls!"

I'm not sure what she's trying to say, what I'M suppose to say and yeah....

Any tips on what I should do or say?

UPDATE:

I tried sending her *indirect* messages asking her for us to talk. We can't really talk in person 'cause that would require my mom to take me to her house or her mom to take her to my house. I get no reply :\

Should I just send her a message/email? What should I put in the email? [/size]

[xenalin]

Sounds to me like she's more into girls than guys, but I can't say for sure of course.
Best thing would be for you guys to talk things through I guess.
Only advice I have >< sorry.

[Diesel]

Yeah. The best thing to do would be to pull her aside somewhere where you won't get bothered and talk to her about it. As hard as it is, that would be the best. I know what its like to have the biggest crush on your friend. I would defiantly say that she likes girls more then boys. She could also possibly be closer to gay then bisexual.

[joshywa]

I think you should never underestimate a person, they are volatile and unpredictable. Don't rush into anything as she has said, because it may be potentially fatal to any chance of a relationship/friendship that you two ever had. On the same hand, she could fall head over heels in love with you and profess that to you straight away. You have to ask yourself the serious question, What do i want out of this, and what am i willing to risk to gain that.

[yesmylord]

Hmm I'd say this one is tricky and I have to agree with joshywa up there we girls can be very emotional and tend to react well To state the obvious emotionally and very violently .The best you can do right now is comfort and stand by her don't put on to much pressure you've made you position clear you like her she bows this ! (Or should ) by now ..So waiting for her to make the next move is probably you best bet !