Post by pumpkin on Dec 21, 2013 4:18:35 GMT
My female boss and I have gotten close and it seems as though something is between us. When we're working together we have a hard time keeping our hands off each other. Like when we hand each other something, our hands always embrace and linger for longer than usual. We've hugged and she's asked me to give her some "lovin" before when she hugged me, squeezing me tight. One night we went out for drinks and she brushed her foot against my pant leg the whole time. There was another co-worker with us.
Nothing has happened or anything, other than a, what seems to be obvious spark between us. I think she's aware that I might be feeling it because she blushes a lot.
The last two days I was off and we texted more than usual. They were kind of sweet messages.
Then today, she was kind of rude to me at work. One co-worker was talking to her and when I added to the conversation she snapped at me and said, "Get back to work!" It hurt my feelings because I was working. So I said, "Do you think I haven't been working today?" She replied that no that she didn't think that and told me not to think that way. Or something to that affect. When she left and said bye to me I barely murmured a goodbye as my feelings were hurt by her sudden sharpness with me. All I did was join in a conversation with her and another co-worker and she treated me like royal crap, meanwhile the day before we're texting at home all sweet and stuff.
What is going on, does anyone know?
First of all, her and I are both married and straight. I've had occasional crushes on a females, although not many and almost always veer towards men. I've never even kissed a female before but would LOVE to make out with my boss and feel electrified being around her. I feel very attracted to her.
We have not communicated this attraction in words and I'm very afraid to. I don't know what to do and tonight it's bothersome to me. I almost called her tonight to talk but held back out of fear.
Nothing has happened or anything, other than a, what seems to be obvious spark between us. I think she's aware that I might be feeling it because she blushes a lot.
The last two days I was off and we texted more than usual. They were kind of sweet messages.
Then today, she was kind of rude to me at work. One co-worker was talking to her and when I added to the conversation she snapped at me and said, "Get back to work!" It hurt my feelings because I was working. So I said, "Do you think I haven't been working today?" She replied that no that she didn't think that and told me not to think that way. Or something to that affect. When she left and said bye to me I barely murmured a goodbye as my feelings were hurt by her sudden sharpness with me. All I did was join in a conversation with her and another co-worker and she treated me like royal crap, meanwhile the day before we're texting at home all sweet and stuff.
What is going on, does anyone know?
First of all, her and I are both married and straight. I've had occasional crushes on a females, although not many and almost always veer towards men. I've never even kissed a female before but would LOVE to make out with my boss and feel electrified being around her. I feel very attracted to her.
We have not communicated this attraction in words and I'm very afraid to. I don't know what to do and tonight it's bothersome to me. I almost called her tonight to talk but held back out of fear.