Dating an FTM

[storm94]

I am and have always been a lesbian, I am 18 years old and 6 months ago had a talk with my partner who told me they were trapped in the wrong body. Recently I am feeling like I don't want to be in this relationship but I know that I can't leave it as he needs someone by his side as he is going to be transitioning in the future. I can't leave someone who needs company, when I think about our relationship it feels as if I am just hanging out with a friend and I miss how it used to be when my partner identified as a female as that's who I fell in love with, but I don't feel that love anymore.
WHAT DO I SAY TO HIM???

[suka]

I used to identify as lesbian as well and had my female partner tell me he was FtM as well. I asked people in another forum about it and said how I felt and they attacked me like I was a monster for being confused about the whole gender change thing... -.-'

So anyways it took some time for me to accept and understand what he was going through. But eventually I did and they were still the same person I fell in love with.
Its been months since then and we are no longer together but he is still my best friend and Im here for him every step of the way.


What I can say for you is that you need to talk to him about how you feel.
Tell him you love him and will always be there for him but you just aren't physically atracted to men.
Its neither of your faults, but that's just how things are. And you cant force yourself to be attracted to something youre not attracted to.